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It's a constant whirlwind of trying to figure out what you're all about, and you turn 26 and you're all about the hustle that you're going to be this billionaire or that billionaire, and then you go to a bar one night and you fall into it. Love changes what you worry about, and then you have a baby, and then this happens, and then this happens, and things change.
You always have to try to know that you What's going on is not because other people are doing it or because of what it is. Your father wants it, and it's not because you said it was going to happen, and it doesn't seem like your family will judge you. You just have to be more real with yourself, and it's a It's a hard struggle, but when you and not others create so much weakness and unhappiness, honest talk has redeemed people.
Because if you come to a clinical psychologist worth his salt, you'll have an honest conversation, and that's good.
What's wrong with my life?
What's causing it?
You know this conversation might take a year, and here's how to fix it. Here's what a rewarding future looks like: And so it's a perfectly honest conversation if it's working well, and what's happening in the conversation is that the two people involved are trying to make things better.
Let's see if we can have a conversation that will make things better. I think one of the resistance factors to these ideas of discipline and taking responsibility for ourselves is that people are admitting that they are not.
They do that in their lives, and they get upset, and instead of looking inward, they try to attack what is bothering them; they attack your message. They look inward and objectively. Instead, they attack the philosophy behind it and have some kind of introspective perspective.
You go, okay.
Am I reacting to it because it makes me feel like I'm missing that aspect of my life?
Is it diminishing me, or is this guy pointing out something that I already know? Few people are willing to take that critical moment, but they look at their own behaviour and their own thought process and wonder if they will respond to that person's message.
The real negative reaction is because they know they are wrong. Start the process of being more honest with yourself. It may not be fun or glamorous, but it will put you in a much better position.
Stop doing things you know are wrong so you can stop doing right. We will not say that you know what is good or true in any ultimate sense, but we will assume that there are things that you are doing for reasons other than what you know to be true.
There are things about them that are not in your best interest, and you know you should stop. Other things that are self-evident to you that you suspect you know may not be so. which way is up and which way is down, but there are things you've been doing that you know you shouldn't be doing anymore, some of which you won't stop doing for whatever reason.
You don't have the discipline, or maybe there's a secondary payment, or you don't believe it's necessary, or it's too much of a sacrifice, or you're angry, resentful, or scared. Who knows, but there's another subset that you can stop doing. It's a little bit of a good thing. Stop doing it and see what happens. What happens is that your vision clears up a little bit.
And then something else will pop up that you'll know about too. You should stop doing it, and you can stop doing it. You can do it over and over indefinitely, but that doesn't necessarily mean you'll ever get a clear and definitive picture of it. will be able to determine what constitutes reality and goodness.
That you will constantly be able to discern what is false and what is bad, and you know that this is not a bad initial discipline; it begins with awakening, it really does, but it is only an initial discipline of all good. The virtue loop is there, but you have to apply it to things other than waking up really early.
It's everything. It's exercising every day. Making yourself stronger, faster, more flexible, and healthier It's about having discipline so you can make good decisions. It's about the things you do. Not necessarily wanting to do it but knowing that it will help you, and that is the discipline that navigates the hard uphill road that is right.
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